I’ve put up with a narc now for 8 years, ive been to scared to leave, until now, but he still has control over me in some way. Ive tried to leave more than 20 times, he keeps dragging me back into his control, and i can’t stop the cycle because i feel so sorry for him, but at the same time his sending me crazy off my head
Dear Jo, for the control to abate, space is usually needed. Have you heard the saying ‘you cannot heal in the environment that made you sick’? To set yourself free, you must set yourself free in all ways. The moment there is a way in, a weakening, a door left slightly ajar, it is done. Take care of you. Do whatever you can to do so. Sending you strength, light & love dear Jo. Maggie x
I’ve put up with a narc now for 8 years, ive been to scared to leave, until now, but he still has control over me in some way. Ive tried to leave more than 20 times, he keeps dragging me back into his control, and i can’t stop the cycle because i feel so sorry for him, but at the same time his sending me crazy off my head
Dear Jo, for the control to abate, space is usually needed. Have you heard the saying ‘you cannot heal in the environment that made you sick’? To set yourself free, you must set yourself free in all ways. The moment there is a way in, a weakening, a door left slightly ajar, it is done. Take care of you. Do whatever you can to do so. Sending you strength, light & love dear Jo. Maggie x