In my opinion, the loss of myself was the most devastating effect my abuser has left on me. My ex was abusive in every way,a because of his abuse I am now in trauma therapy after being diagnosed with Complex PTSD. He nearly wiped me out completely. Nearly. I wasn’t about to let that abusive asshole get the best of me. Through therapy, I have slowly regained a sense of self. The trauma my ex inflicted has changed me and I have begun to accept that. My ex won’t ever get to see the new pieces of me and that brings a smile to my face every day.
Dear Alesha. Seems to me, you have much to smile for. There is huge power in your words. You sound like quite the unsinkable, almighty spirit. True, you are changed from the abuse. But not less than the you of before. You are more than the you of before. You are now fiercely you. You’ve 100% got this. Light & love to you gorgeous one. Maggie x
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