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by narcwisemaggie
Posted on November 24, 2017May 29, 2018
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3 hours 59 minutes ago

Raise your voices up gorgeous ones. Speak your pain and your truth. Even if just to yourself, you will be setting yourself free x

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16 hours 59 minutes ago

This piece is about the struggle to admit to yourself that you are being abused. It explains why and how overcoming this hurdle is a fundamental step on the healing journey, offering questions to get you started in pushing through this challenge.
I'd love to hear any wisdom & stories from you gorgeous ones on what resonates in this article and what you did to overcome this painful confrontation with the truth. Make a difference by sharing to help others! Maggie x

Why narcissistic abuse is so hard to admit to yourself | Narc Wise

Why narcissistic abuse is so hard to admit to yourself | Narc Wise

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Admitting to narcissistic abuse is both immensely challenging and the springboard to true healing. Find out why, and how to make it happen.

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I have to remind myself that I was targeted, I knew I was being lied to a lot. I have to remember that it was a set up from the start. I have to tell myself I'm not stupid, gullible or anything less because of all the names the narc called me.

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Now that I've been away from it for a while, I think most of the shame comes from "letting" it happen. How did I miss all the signs when they were ALL there? What is wrong with me that I allowed this? That kind of thing. I know now that it wasn't me, and that there are parts of myself that need healed to never find myself in that situation again, but it took time, reflection, tears, and lots and lots and lots of writing and rebuilding myself to get there.

8 hours 7 minutes ago

The answer is a big fat dirty snowball of crap. As humans we all want to be loved but lots have a skewed perception of what love or a loving relationship is. An addict may not necessarily be a true narcissist but active addiction will make them one. Taking advantage, manipulation, lying, gaslighting all makes a person crazy. And that we don't ever admit to ourselves that we fell for it. The relationship with mine did not start out this way. A relapse and all the damage it brought made it into something quite ugly. With all that said the trauma from all of it has given me my own set of traits as a narcissist and verbal abuser. And let me tell ya, that was even harder to admit to myself.

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Sad but true

21 hours 52 minutes ago

Oh yes. His child was and is being used against me. Her wanting a mom is being used against her. Sad but true.

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True

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OMG! So true. In my opinion; narcissism has become a 'weakspot' in society: Too many people are beeing affected negatively just by a one narcissist. And so on...

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