Reacting vs. responding

Within the context of narcissistic abuse, reacting is immediate, reflexive, and leads with emotion. It’s typically triggered by an event or comment that directly targets or activates a wounded part of ourselves.

Responding is more measured and controlled, allowing for a level of detachment from the situation, and  incorporates thought, rationality, as well as emotions.

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